"Framing is an amazing persuasion tool which I continue to explore and in this article, I've chosen some pretty volatile topics to make a pretty powerful point".
By Kenrick Cleveland

Framing is an amazing persuasion tool which I continue to explore and in this article, I’ve chosen some pretty volatile topics to make a pretty powerful point.

We’re all familiar with what they refer to as “the oldest profession”. And we’ve all got our ideas and fears on the evils that arise from such a profession. In our society, prostitution is illegal. It’s connected to drugs, violence, disease, abuse, and other problems. That’s the frame. We can all agree on that, right? How about looking through someone else’s frame? A former student and acquaintance of mine sent me an e-mail recently with a link and all it said was, ‘Check out this frame.’ The link was to the International Committee for Prostitute’s Rights.

Upon further research, I found another organization called C.O.Y.O.T.E. The letters stand for call off your old tired ethics. They bill themselves as a sex worker’s rights organization. Old frame: prostitutes. New frame: sex workers.

There’s a pretty strong movement in the U.S. and all over Europe, to decriminalize prostitution and ensure rights and protection to the people working in the industry. To me, that’s a new frame. I had never heard of such a thing and it really struck me as interesting.

Proponents of this frame differentiate between the prostitutes who are being victimized and the sex workers who feel empowered in the industry. The issue is certainly complex with the emotional fire that politics and sexuality can inspire.

The frame gets more complex, describing sex work as an important part of the economy. With Nevada and the Netherlands as examples, proponents of decriminalizing prostitution suggest that through regulation many of the dangers associated with the industry can be lessened. With mandatory medical check ups, the health dangers are drastically cut down. And with no pimps, the violence is lessened.

The issue of sex for money has been taken out of the frame of morality (which has been the strongest frame by far) and put it in the frame of being an important part of the economy. If you look at the argument for legalizing drugs, it’s very similar.

The idea of ‘victimless crimes’ is an appealing frame to me in that the amount of money spent each year on imprisoning pot growers/users and sex workers, is staggering. I am not advocating to ‘legalize it’ though I am intrigued to know that there are intelligent opponents to the cultural norm.
Again, this is just an exercise in framing and when you can reframe a very strong argument with another strong argument, whoever has the better frame, wins.

Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to earn the business of affluent prospects using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in persuasion techniques.

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Got someone special in you life? But somehow you've hit that 3 month stall or that 7 year itch or you just can't seem to get your schedules to match up any more. Put some fire back into your bedroom...
By Priscilla Parham


Copyright (c) 2007 Priscilla Parham
Got someone special in you life? But somehow you’ve hit that 3 month stall or that 7 year itch or you just can’t seem to get your schedules to match up any more. Put some fire back into your bedroom by working on yourself.

Incorporate these 8 Tips into your daily living and your mate will fall in love all over again.

1. Every morning upon waking think about or write about all of the things, experiences and people you are grateful for, including your mate.

2. Give a smile and an honest compliment to your mate, daily.

3. Make your mate feel important, just listen to what they have to say. No need to agree or disagree.

4. Remember your mate, send unexpected cards. Have them mailed to their workplace and also mailed to arrive in their personal mail at home.

5. Write your own journal of positive aspects about your mate. It doesn’t matter if you write the same thing over and over again. Read them to yourself daily, feel them, sing them, whatever it takes to change your mind and uplift your mood.

6. Be easy with yourself. Appreciate yourself more and others will follow.

7. Give forgiveness freely, it doesn’t matter if they deserve it or not, YOU DO. So let go of carrying all that extra baggage around.

8. Every night before going to bed think about or write about all of the things, experiences and people you are grateful for, including your mate.

The key to more love and sex in your life is to become those qualities that you want to see in your mate. Be happy, be easy, let go of things that don’t matter much and appreciate those around you more. In the end it becomes a balancing act of selfishness and selflessness – because neither one is a good quality all by itself.

In the words of Maya Angelou “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

In life alot of times we move through without clear thought or focus then become unhappy with the results. If the sex or passion is no longer forth coming, remember you are getting back what you give. At LiveTheSecret.us you’ll find tools to help you get clear about what you want for yourself and your relationship, with gratitude and appreciation pages to print for your use.

Starting today, you can show your mate appreciation with the true magic of greeting cards. It is not the card itself; its the message on the card. That is where the magic is. It is pure energy, the positive kind. The energy that changes lives and makes the world a better place to live in.

Are you ready for more sex and passion, just like when you first met?
You can send free personalized greeting cards in the mail (not e-cards) from your computer at http://www.LiveTheSecret.us . Priscilla Parham coaches on awareness and goal setting for your health, your business and your relationships motivating change from the inside-out.

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By Joe Zychik

How to overcome sex addiction. Part 1

The sheer intensity and complexity of the feelings that drive sex addiction are what make overcoming it so difficult - and so rewarding.
Sex addiction is overcome by attacking the problem on two levels. The first level consists of the personal issues that drive the sex addiction. The second level addresses the addictive aspects of using sex as an escape.
The personal issues display themselves through the different forms of sex addiction. Someone addicted to masturbation/porn does not have the same personal problems as someone addicted to prostitutes. A married man sneaking one porn magazine into the house should not take the same approach to his personal issues as a single man obsessed with porn stars.
All the personal issues involved with sex addiction spring from one root: fleeing intimacy. There are different kinds of intimacy. There is intimacy between parent and child, between friends, neighbors, business associates, etc. The intimacy problems involved with sex addiction are overcome by approaching them on an adult level. Conventional, licensed therapy encourages its clients to focus on the traumas of childhood to overcome sex addiction. But sex is a distinctly adult issue. Even people molested as children change as they mature. There are people molested in childhood who do not become addicted to sex. From what Ive observed in helping people overcome sex addiction since 1983, most sexually addicted people have never been molested. Clearly, childhood trauma does not cause sex addiction.

The first lesson in overcoming sex addiction is to treat sex addiction as an adult problem.

Now let's look at the second aspect of overcoming sexual addiction using sex as an escape. Let's start with this definition of addiction, The consistent use of a substance or an activity to escape dealing with uncomfortable feelings. Sex is not the only activity that can be used for escape. Addictive use of work, exercise, or eating is also possible. Substances such as alcohol, drugs, pot, and psychological medication can be used for addictive escape.

The sexually addicted person is not the only one who suffers from his addictive escapes. The partner can suffer more than he does.
In the next part of this series well discuss how the attempt to escape reality causes a substance or activity -such as sex - to become addictive. One final thought to keep in mind: the rewards of dealing with reality far outweigh the temporary high of escape


Joe Zychik is the author of The Most Personal Addiction: How I overcame sex addiction and how anyone canFor more information on overcome sex addiction visit: SexualControl.com
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Since ancient times, many cultures have recognized the value of good sex in the art of love-making. Proficiency in the art of love-making requires both knowledge gathered over the years and, of course, practice. In ancient India, there live a Mughal emperor named King Ahmad. Desirous of the lovemaking skills to match his handsome appearance, King Ahmad commissioned his great princely sage and poet, Kalyana Malla, to seek out the knowledge needed to be a master of love. Kalyana Malla consulted many wise and holy men, examined the opinions of many poets, and extracted the essence of their wisdom. Subsequently, he composed a work of which was called the Ananga-Ranga. This is the second of the three classics Eastern love texts which included the 2000 year old Kama Sutra.

Kalyana Malla believed the main reason for separation between couples, and the cause that drives partners to the embraces of strangers was the lack of varied pleasure and subsequent monotony. Monotonous sex often leads to no sex at all and a multitude of other problems. Kalyana Malla believed the cure for this was a healthy sexual imagination. Imagination in lovemaking generates increased pleasure during sex, renewing a couple's desire for sexual intimacy. This renewal of sexual intimacy fosters love, friendship and respect in the hearts of couples. Kalyana Malla's philosophy held that by varying sexual positions with your partner, you could fantasize as if you had many different partners. Each position has its own unique benefit. Combined, these positions elicited a myriad of sexual delights. Many of these positions were extremely difficult, yet it often was these difficult positions that provided the most stimulation and satisfaction.

However, only those trained in yoga or possessing great strength and athleticism could perform these positions and reap the pleasure they aroused. Ancient Indians recognized this problem and created the first wing-like devices to facilitate difficult positions. Most were a failure. Limited by the material and technology of the time, these devices were crude, often consisting only of ropes and pulleys. As you can imagine, they were extraordinarily uncomfortable, cutting off circulation of the limbs and abrading the skin. Ancient depictions of the use of these swings didn't show very happy users. One look at the rider's face and you could tell they'd rather be elsewhere. These devices were also dangerous. Not only were they uncomfortable, they were also difficult to use, often requiring attendants and tremendous exertion on the part of the users. Surprisingly enough, even with all these faults, the swing was very popular as an expensive and exclusive item for the wealthy, who could afford both the swing and the attendants needed to assist during usage.


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